Wednesday, March 3, 2010

DAY 90 -cusp of change



This is an endearing image of one friend of mine wishing the other goodbye and good luck.

At least once or twice in our lifetime we find ourselves at the cusp of major change in our lives.

As we grow live more life, go through numerous experiences in life and gather so called native wisdom we realise that some of these changes are a result of our asking. Our dreams, wishes, prayers and desires. It is not by chance that we usually stand at the cusp of this change but by choice. Some might not realise it. But invariably, it is always by choice. At some point we had wanted that particular change in our life.

More often than not we forget that we had in fact created this reality that we are in now. As a result we stand there confused, afraid and indecisive. Am I making the right choice by forging ahead? Maybe it is just a mirage! Why me? Why do I have to encounter this now? We torture ourselves with questions and in our confusion we refuse to see the answer -a simple one -we are at this point of change simply because we had asked for it.

This afternoon I had lunch with three of my friends. One of them was as I said at the cusp of a major change in her life. But what was joyful was that she created that reality for herself.

Yes it can be scary as hell, especially when you have to leave all that you are familiar with behind and step into the world of the unknown -for that is what change is all about.

So it was for my friend - new job, new place, new people, new life....but what was heartening to see was that she's embraced it all.

And that would mean just one thing -a dazzling, joyous, empowering and successful time ahead.

And she deserves every bit of it.

I will always remember this day when my friend left to forge a new path -one that she created for herself.

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